Wednesday, February 18, 2009

The Day We Welcomed Audriana


Bjorn returned from his deployment early in preparation for Audriana's birth.  Over deployment, Sopanha sent him a few books based on recommendations of some of our friends who have been through this themselves.  Bjorn definitely read up on it and was a great birthing coach (more on that later...).   Because of Bjorn's early arrival from deployment, we got to celebrate Thanksgiving together.  It was wonderful.  

From the onset, Sopanha's due date kept fluctuating.  So when December rolled around, we were ready.  We had several false alarms.  Sopanha's parents flew in with the hopes that Baby Anderson would have made an appearance by that time.  Unfortunately, that was not the case.  Finally on the morning of December 11th, Sopanha decided that we should go to the family birthing center.   It sorta felt like it could be labor pains and we were past our due date.  When we got to the hospital, Sopanha was only 1.5 cm dialated.  Since we were past our due date, the nurse suggested that we go for an hour walk around the hospital and come back.  We did that and there was no change.   We were both disappointed.  Coincidentally, we had a midwife appointment that day.  When we went to see our midwife, Mary, in a matter of 30 minutes, Sopanha had dilated to 4 cm and her water broke.  After that, the real contractions began and it was no joke!  Mary told us that we should continue walking, as first pregnancies generally take quite a while before the actual delivery.  

We decided to walk to the hospital (it was right next door to the clinic).  Unfortunately, Sopanha ended up needing to be wheelchaired next door.  We got to the Family Birthing Center at 3:00pm.  Audriana was born at 6:59pm.  So contrary to our Mary's expectation, Audriana was a speedy delivery!  We barely had time to get Sopanha admitted to the hospital in between contractions.  While Sopanha was about 7 months along, she decided that she would try to do the delivery drug-free.  When we got to the hospital on December 11, Sopanha declared that drugs were her friends and insisted on their presence immediately.  Unfortunately, the epidural never took and Audriana was delivered au natural.  

Bjorn was an awesome coach!  He read up on "The Birthing Partner."  He was so good about helping her breathe through contractions and the nurses were extremely impressed with him.  They even asked if he learned his coaching skills through a birthing class.  He causally told them that he just read a book on it.  They swooned and he smiled smugly (okay, Sopanha isn't really sure that that happened since she was busy with contractions, but she did recall that there was a vague smugness to Bjorn's voice).  



Our beautiful little girl was born with a head full of hair, blue-gray eyes, and red pouty-lips.  She weighed in at 6 lbs. 14 oz. and 19.5 inches.  We instantly fell in love with her!  

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

How we found out we were expecting!


In February 2008, we decided to take a pre-deployment vacation Thailand since Bjorn was going to be going on his second deployment later that summer.  We bought tickets in March and began planning our trip out there.  We would leave the States in mid-April and return at the end of the month.  We planned on seeing Sopanha's uncle in Bangkok, island hopping and perhaps a short excursion to Cambodia.  It would be the honeymoon we never had.  

In the meantime, Sopanha began job hunting.  She landed several offers, but accepted a position at criminal law / employment law firm in Bellingham.  Sopanha was set to start her first day a week before we would leave for Thailand.   The weekend before her first day, we found out that Sopanha was pregnant!  We actually did not think this was going to happen and took the pregnancy test on a whim.  When Bjorn saw the two blue lines, were we ever excitedly surprised!   Sopanha ended up being pretty sick on our trip to Thailand.  Since Sopanha had never had morning sickness before, we weren't sure if it was due to the pregnancy or simply because we were eating foods that her system was not used to.

At anyrate, we were pretty lucky when our OB ordered an ultrasound right away before our trip to Thailand....and we got another upon our return from Thailand.  We got to see our little peanut LOTS during the first trimester.    It wasn't until Sopanha was 13 weeks along that we told all of our family and friends over a PowerPoint slideshow.  Hopefully, we'll be able to post that slideshow in a little bit.